You're equating "finishing first" with being happy and finding love. The alphas that form power couples maybe aren't interested in finding "love." They just move from one torrid affair to another. Different kinds of people may have different ideas of happiness. That was Nietzsche's point about slave vs alpha (Ubermensch) morality. So the question is what standard we're using to evaluate the different social classes. Finishing last may be fine for the lower class nice guys if we're assuming lower class conceptions of happiness and love.