Right, but what I'm saying here is that underlying social and ideological alienation (as in religious and secular societies) is a psychological and even metaphysical kind of detachment.

Inanimate objects suffer no such detachment, of course, and animals may begin to suffer when they're displaced (when they're lost and separated from their pack, or when they're surprised or dejected). But people suffer an extreme form of this detachment, not because we're social but because we're self-aware beings. We understand that we have a relatively rational, autonomous self, and we understand what the world is, so we have this special problem of wondering whether the two are supposed to be related in some way. Personhood itself is especially alienating because of the nature of self-consciousness and because of our facility for understanding things with simplified conceptions/models that land us in maya (a mental world of abstract illusions).

If anything, social bonds and distractions are salves to mitigate this existential alienation.