Have a look at my other writings to see if I'm afraid of anything in the sense of being politically correct. See, for example, the links below for my criticisms of woke culture and of hyperfemininity in US politics.
I have an old habit of writing "her" instead of "him" sometimes not because of political correctness, which I despise, but to remind myself of our animal brutality which drove most societies to be patriarchal.
Plus, what's wrong with evening things up just a little? Why not include women in the discourse? Writing "him and her" all the time gets awkward and tedious.