Did you viscerally reject the new atheists because of the overbearing masculinity of the movement? Or because of their hostility towards religion? New atheism broke up into Atheism Plus and the intellectual dark web.

It is indeed a trap to define yourself as an atheist since it's a negative, rather hollow label. We should keep in mind the positive, substantive elements of our worldview. For me they're naturalism, existentialism, cosmicism, humanism, and so on.